When You Lived In My belly - Jodi Meltzer Darter and Her Son Reading

Local Author Pays Loving Tribute to Her Son

Jul 25, 2019

Alex Meltzer Is A Precocious Nine-Year-Old. He’s The Focus Of A Book, Whose Author Happens To Be His Mom.

Alex Meltzer is the star of the show.

“Mi casa es su casa,” Meltzer said in Spanish to communicate “My house is your house,” as he welcomed a visitor into his Franklin home.

Alex is only 9 years old, and he’s “never shy,” his mother Jodi Meltzer said.

He’s also the star of Meltzer’s illustrated children’s book, When You Lived in My Belly, which chronicles the nine months Alex was in the womb. It highlights the challenges, and joys, of carrying a child in utero, and the special bond created from the experience.

 

When You Lived In My belly - Jodi Meltzer and Her Son Reading

 

 

(Jodi and Alex sitting together with a copy of When You Lived in My Belly)

 

 

 

 

Available online, published by Mascot Books, it hits local bookstores Aug. 6. A book signing is scheduled 11 a.m. on Aug. 10 at the Bellingham Barnes & Noble.

Meltzer, 46, has been writing for years – for television and film. She’s a blogger, and this is her first book.

“My mom is an amazing writer,” Alex said while the two snuggled on a plush couch, holding a copy of the book. “I love her very much.”

The mother-daughter team of Caryn King and Jody King Camarra illustrated the pages – Meltzer and King Camarra are best friends since kindergarten – and every one represents a month in Alex’s development.

Meltzer’s pregnant belly on each page includes an illustrated oval, and sitting inside is the latest stage of the developing fetus.

Alex stealthily moved away from his mom, and whispered, “That (oval) makes me feel yuck. My insides feel very bad. But it warms my heart when I read it.”

Meltzer wanted the ovals, and included words on the pages like “ultrasound” and “birth canal” to remove some of the mystery of pregnancy that may exist in some children’s minds.

“This book is not delivery by stork. It’s honest, in a kid-friendly way,” Meltzer said.

One of the book’s inspirations is Meltzer’s late mother, Michele Goldman, who died six years ago from ovarian cancer.

It was Goldman’s dream to write a children’s book, but she never quite got there.

Determined to fulfill her mother’s dream, Meltzer set out to write a children’s book, but she hit a roadblock – “I had no clue what to write about. I’ve always written about adults.”

The breakthrough came one day when Alex asked Meltzer, ‘What was it like when I lived in your belly?’

Six years later, after several revisions, Meltzer finally has a tribute to her mother – and son.

“I came up with the book idea,” Alex gleefully said after jumping off the couch and breaking into dance. “I hope I wasn’t bragging.”

Alex lost his biological father to cancer last September, and Meltzer is working on a book about grief from two perspectives – the loss of her mother and the death of Alex’s father.

Sitting in his mother’s lap, Alex listened as Meltzer read a page that described her ninth month of pregnancy. It ends with ”… (Alex was) placed on my chest with a sweet little sigh.”

After a split-second pause, Alex blurted out a “Da-Da-Da” cadence, followed by, “That was a dramatic scene.”

“I always loved you, right from the start,” Meltzer replied.

“Of course she loved me. Who couldn’t,” Alex said.

 

This  article originally appeared on Metrowest Daily News and was written by Henry Schwan, a the health reporter for the MetroWest Daily News. Follow Henry on Twitter @henrymetrowest or contact him via email at [email protected] or 508-626-3964.

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